Real Reasons Men Sleep With Their House Maids

She does nearly everything for you, she cooks the food, wash the clothes, pick up the children at school, take care of them, clean your homes and not leaving out the bedroom you share with your husband—she sweeps it, lays the bed and if care is not taken, also get into the neatly laid bed with him—the head of the family, your  HUSBAND!
Unknown to you, she knows how well endowed your husband is down there, she calls him by his name when you are not there, your husband kisses that mouth you see as smelly. She knows all the colours of his boxers and plays with his moustache and the hair on his chest.

Lovers have split; many homes have been broken, once happy families have fallen apart as a result of this. It happened yesterday, it’s happening presently as you read and it will happen tomorrow. It’s no more news that some men, no matter how gentle and responsible they look, the command and respect they get and the fear they create at work or how his staff tremble when they hear his voice, he still sneaks out of the room at night to have an affair with house helps and maids. Such men even shiver at the feet of the house helps, the young lady from the village who once looked tattered, unkempt and can never be a match to his wife. Some wives are so lucky that their promiscuous husbands only use the house helps as flings while others who are not so lucky are chased out of the home they built and her house help becomes the new madam.
It doesn’t only happen in this part of the world, it happens everywhere, popular actor/former California government, Arnold Schwarzenegger and his wife, Maria Shriver broke up and the reason for their break up was Arnold’s affair with his family‘s housekeeper who also bore him a child.
What makes even those who are powerful and famous, wealthy and privileged, go after those hired as domestic staff especially their house maids? What is behind the appeal of seducing an employee, specifically one who works in your home?
Here are a few explanations:
The family has grown so big, the children have increased in number, so as the work load, she couldn’t cope with all the chores alone and had no choice but hire a maid who would assist her with the chores, she then brings in a fully mature beautiful lady who has big and full succulent breasts and a well robust buttocks. Yes, she trusts her husband so much, he can’t stoop so low to have an affair with any one not to talk of a house maid she considers ugly and not his calibre. The truth is how many men can resist a well-built woman who swings her breasts and rolls her pantless buttocks deliberately or unknowingly in the house all day?  Don’t forget she does some of the house chores bending or squatting. Like Adam, the typical man can’t resist the temptation of a riper fruit.
Men claim that women today are not being wives. Career women, they say, have become so distant and aggressive that they have become a turn off to men. “She denies you sex, so, you look for pleasure elsewhere.” When she is around, she claims she had a difficult day and she is tired. And what do I do when I have a woman under my roof — whether she is a maid or not?”
For another man, it has to do with the fact that the maid was doing all the chores and serving him the best meals just in time. “She is always in the kitchen; she ironed my clothes, bathed the children and polished my shoes. The few times she went away to spend Christmas with her family members, my wife never did all that for me or attended to my needs so when she came back, I had sex with her and found out she is better in bed just as she is better in the kitchen, with the house chores and with the kids….hmmmm
Some men want to get away from today’s over-empowered and aggressive women, such as their wives and bosses, and be with more regular, easy-going women with whom they can relax and not have to try so hard to lay or pay huge cash to maintain. Maids are the perfect candidates.
Men want a woman who will fully submit but instead, he has got a woman who sees that as being a slave. The result is that the husband looks for an easy, submissive woman available for sex, and he finds these qualities in a housemaid. These women are often young, single, struggling with financial issues, and may be attracted to the allure of male power too.
So many men say this all the time, “Once we’ve seen a woman naked several times, it becomes commonplace.  We become accustomed to your body and want to experience something different — different lips, different body types’—some men don’t care who they cheat on, be it the receptionist at the office, the cleaner who cleans the toilets at work, or the maid in the house, as far as she has all the physical attributes of a woman.
Some men like to use their masculinity to advance their power by picking on weaker people such as maids and young girls who are vulnerable and would jump at what they see as an opportunity for a changed life.
Some women only attend to their own needs and leave the maid to attend to their husband’s needs. The helper makes their bed, washes his pants and even cooks and serves the husband’s food. Human beings by nature love a person who is close to them.”
He just can’t put his ‘john Thomas’ where it belongs so he shares it with anyone who wouldn’t mind having a piece of it.
A little advice for you
You can’t do without a house maid, then don’t go for the one with ‘full asset’ who may compete with you.
Set limits and boundaries.
Be watchful and vigilant.
Don’t leave your responsibilities to your housemaid, you hired her to assist not to share your home, bed and your husband.
She has no business with your bedroom or washing your husband’s underwear.
If you can do without a house help, then do without her.

OLAIDE SOTUNDE
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